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Darren's tribute
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May 7, 1922 - For those loyal, loving fans unable to attend Darren's service, I reproduce here a brief description of the sad day. The service was held March
5, 2006, in a small chapel in Hollywood Forever Cemetery, just south of
Santa Monica at Gower. The foyer was filled with McGavin memorabilia, lobby
cards and stills (one touching one of McGavin and Don Knotts), along with family
pictures, many of which featured an older, wispy-haired, gray-skinned McGavin;
one family picture had an "I Love You Grandpa" frame. It was an
open-casket ceremony and McGavin looked - well, let us say that old age is the
only demon darkly powerful enough to defeat humanity's indomitable
defender. The chapel held about 100 people, and they had to put out extra
chairs to hold the 130 or so attendees. The music offered was vintage:
Sinatra singing "My Way" and "They Can't Take That Away From
Me," renditions by soloists on "In My Life" and "A Place for
Us," and McGavin, himself, singing "Shall We Dance" and "A
Puzzlement" from "The King and I." Fan Tribute One night in 1972 my mother and I had begun to
watch a movie called "High-Flying Spy." Suddenly, she
straightened up and exclaimed, "Why, that's Darren McGavin! He's
always been one of my favorites." I was just shy of twelve years old,
but I can still remember my fascination with this man my mother had so often
mentioned, the man who would soon become my favorite actor. For the first
time I discovered what so many others already knew - that grand voice, that
marvelously mobile face, and that extraordinary presence. Darren's
presence was a quicksilver thing, as changeable as lightning and impossible to
describe - one moment sternly dramatic, the next explosively funny, the next sad
or pensive or wonderfully sly - and yet it was always unmistakably his
own. Like the great actors of the "Old Vic," Darren possessed an
equal genius for comedy and drama, but without that famous British
reserve. Darren always brought to his roles a jauntiness and a
self-confidence that was peculiarly American. This dynamic optimism
defined almost all of Darren's characters. We have a very big loss but at the same time,
know Darren is with Kathie... right where he would want to be. 83 years
old is a full, wonderful life, it was clear to see that Kathie was the light of
his eyes, makes one almost happy for him. The past few years must have
been difficult for him...he is now at peace. My earliest recollection of Darren McGavin was
seeing him as a policeman in the 1957 Jerry Lewis comedy, "The Delicate
Delinquent." This was on television when I was a kid. I think
by this time Dean Martin and Lewis had broken up their partnership and Darren
McGavin played the straight man in lieu of the former. While I do not have
any recollections of it at all, I'm sure I saw Darren McGavin in the space-drama
feature "Mission Mars," with Nick Adams. However, I do have
better memories of Darren McGavin as the Hollywood P.I, David Ross, in his TV
series, "The Outsider." While I have always been primarily a fan
of the horror and science fiction genres, "The Outsider" was one show
I would want to watch because I just liked it. And, on reflection all
these years later, it was because of the star's performance. I remember
that Ross kept his phone inside his refrigerator, I don't remember why. The world is mourning a great actor today.
He was loved by so many. Thanks for a beautiful site. ************************************************************************************ I read with much sadness the passing of
Darren. He was one of my favorites, as was Kathie. I just wanted to
thank you for the wonderful site you both created. I have visited it for a
long time now, and am always amazed by its scope. It really was, and still
will be, an amazing tribute to Mr. and Mrs. McGavin. I sent a Christmas
card to you to pass on to Darren in December. I do hope he received
it. He really made an impact and I just wanted to send him something to
tell him so. I was actually planning on sending him something for his
birthday - it's a shame. But like you said, we should celebrate his
life. And his rejoicing with his beloved Kathie for that matter. ************************************************************************************************ It
is with tearful regret that I hear of Darren McGavin's demise. I have
written before of the esteem with which I and my fellow members of the Hobby
Talk-Polar Lights model forum have had for "our Nightstalker," and
"Mr. Parker" among other alter egos. I am sure I speak for all
of us when I say he will be greatly missed. ******************************************************************************************** ******************************************************************************* My
condolences on the loss of your friend. I sent Mr. McGavin a sympathy card
care of you when Kathie Browne died. If you believe in an afterlife, then
they are together again. May he rest in peace. ******************************************************************************************* I
wanted to write and say I that I have enjoyed Mr. McGavin's work for a long
time. I used to watch every week when it was on T.V. and loved it. I
high school, I was in chorus, and during the Christmas season, Walt Disney World
in Orlando would choose schools, based on tapes sent in, to come up and walk in
the Christmas procession in Disney. We would have guest speakers who read
the story of the birth of Christ as we would sing. My school, one of many,
was chosen many times and I happened to be there the two years we were
selected. I believe it was 1980 or 1981. One year they had Perry
Como. Anyway, one year, we, this is when I was attending, they had Rock
Hudson. One year, as well, we had Darren McGavin. I will never
forget that time. Our high school was McArthur High in Hollywood, Florida,
among many high schools that had participated in the procession. He did a
wonderful job narrating the story. He will be missed. ************************************************************************************ I
offer this as a tribute on the passing of a truly gifted and under-appreciated
actor - and a great guy. It may seem silly for a grown man to view a
television character as a role model, but among all of Darren McGavin's prolific
and varied career in stage, film and television, it is his portrayal of feisty,
cynical newspaper reported Carl Kolchak in "Kolchak: The Night
Stalker" that has become a daily influence on my life. Kolchak was
for us a champion of the underdog, the working slob endlessly scraping and
clawing against a cold-hearted establishment to do one thing - get the truth out
there. Kolchak's enemies included zombies, were wolves, vampires, headless
motorcyclists, and even a dinosaur, but those adversaries were vanquished.
It was his other adversaries - a narrow-minded editor and strong-armed law
enforcement officials that were the real threat. No matter how deadly the
monsters, it was the system that was the true villain. Yet it was Kolchak,
an ordinary looking, middle-aged guy with a cheat suit, who was out there
fighting for us, at the risk of his own life and livelihood, to tell us the
truth and to save us chickens from the boogie men, both human and
otherwise. He never gave up, and neither should we. The world could
use a lot more Kolchaks, now more than ever. The truth is out there as the
"X-Files" says, but without Carl Kolchak, there would have been no Fox
Mulder. Is it silly to derive inspiration from a fictional
character? Maybe, but it's a silliness I'm proud of. *************************************************************************************************
I
am almost at a loss for words to try and express my sorrow. Darren has
many timeless classic movies and TV shows to carry on his legacy. Like
many of his fans, each and every Christmas is and will always be filled with
many laughs as we watch the "Christmas Story." I'm sure many
tears will be shed amongst us all this Christmas when we see "the old
man's" face on the screen. When I watch it, the story reminds me so
much of my own family and how my Dad was much like Darren's character, to a
certain extent. Much of the same can be said for his portrayal of Carl
Kolchak. The character that best described a lot of what I did with my own
life... doing what you feel is right for one reason or another and end up with
no faith in what you've done or what you're trying to do or say. I'm sure
there are other ways of looking at that character, but that's how I generally
see it. Things certainly will never be the same again without Darren in
our lives, but his legacy will live on and will be a constant inspiration to us
all. May the spirit of Kathie guide you through the gates of heaven for
your eternal life. ***************************************************************************** Anyone
that has talked to me for a minimum of ten minutes knows that my favorite TV
show of all time is "Kolchak: The Night Stalker." In the 1974/75
show, Darren McGavin portrayed reporter Carl Kolcha, who each week jumped out of
the frying pan and into the fire as he relentlessly encountered every kind of
creature, monster, and supernatural force while never losing sight of his quest
to tell the truth. I can't tell you how many countless hours of joy I've
spent watching and re-watching Darren as Carl Kolchak. First I had to buy
the show and TV movies on expensive Columbia House VHS tapes. Then, I
replaced them with the DVD sets. Why? Two words: Darren McGavin. ******************************************************************************************* Thank
you for the lovely fan site for Darren McGavin and his wife, Kathie
Browne. I adored Mr. McGavin's performance and truly believe I became a
writer because of Carl Kolchak. I was glued to the television set in my
youth, watching as Kolchak managed to both solve mysterious crimes of the
paranormal and churn out good copy. Who wouldn't want to live a life like
that? Who wouldn't want to be Carl Kolchak -- the Night Stalker?
Carl Kolchak was the epitome of cool. ***************************************************************************************** As
I sit here in my new apartment, in warm, exciting Las Vegas, I am so glad that
my children (24 and 25 respectively) and I were able to spend our last Christmas
together in frigid Cleveland, this Christmas, just past, as our former home
there. As we opened up our gifts with them laughing at "their old
man," 'cause my daughter had gotten him (me) something I had REALLY wanted;
while, all the while, in the background, the TBS marathon showing of "A
Christmas Story" was playing, just as "the Old Man," Darren
McGavin was about to utter, summoning up every bit of dignity, as the Bumpass'
dogs had just ruined their Christmas dinner, everyone ceased; unwrapping,
cajoling each other; shhh, shhh, "here it comes," "everybody,
upstairs, get dressed, we're going out to eat!" Yeahhh, yesss,
"see, I told you that's what he says." ************************************************************************************************ Darren
McGavin was, for me, a lot of things. An amazing actor, a true
personality, a noble man. His work enriched me and his love story with
Kathie inspired me. I am so sad about his passing - to think we won't have
this wonderful man with us. **************************************************************************************************** As
one of my favorite actors, Mr. McGavin will be truly missed but not forgotten,
as he will continue to "live on" in film and in the hearts of his many
fans. *************************************************************************************** I
was surprised to see Mr. McGavin's long list of credits. I remember seeing
him on TV starting in the 60's.... Mannix, the TV movies, "The
Challenge," and "Tribes," then later in "Magnum PI" and
the "Night Stalker" series. I thought he was an excellent actor
and brought something out of the ordinary to the craft. I admired him as
the Marine Corps DI in "Tribes," and based on his performance, thought
he might have had military experience. I will miss him. ************************************************************************************** I
avoided writing to you good folks until later today. I simply didn't know
what to say. My bride avoided telling me about Mr. McGavin's death, since
I was at a convention in Orlando. She didn't want me to be upset since I
was such a big fan. I did cry a bit this afternoon even though I never met
the man behind so many wonderful characters but I felt as though I knew
him. And tonight I turned my grief around and told myself to cut it out
and celebrate the great man's life and try to see as many of his works as
possible and embrace what he left behind. Again, thanks for keeping the
flame lit for us fans, and hopefully, for a long time to come. We've got a
job to do to pass down Mr. McGavin's body of work to future generations to come. *************************************************************************** Just
a note to say it was a joy to watch Mr. McGavin in all his work - especially
"A Christmas Story." He and his co-star Melinda Dillon looked so
natural together you couldn't tell they were acting. I will remember him
fondly each Christmas season. ************************************************************************************ We
are so sorry about your loss. ********************************************************************************************** Mr.
McGavin is so much fun to watch and so entertaining. No one can hold a
wooden stake to Mr. McGavin's Kolchak or can do what he did exactly the way he
did it. He was an original and a force unto himself. He juggled
Comedy, Horror, Tragedy and Character in perfect balance and made it look
easy! RIP, Mr. McGavin! I love your work. You'll live in my
heart. ******************************************************************************************** I
was deeply saddened by the passing of Darren McGavin. I cannot believe the
world will be without this great talent. Everything I saw that he starred
in was truly a joy to watch. He brought out so much in his
characters. I always felt a little of his own personality was coming
through. My deepest sympathy is extended to his friends and all the other
fans like myself who will miss him forever. ******************************************************************************************* I
am sorry to hear about the passing of Darren. He was truly a gifted actor,
who, in my opinion, made the movie, "A Christmas Story," the Christmas
tradition it is today. His humor was so subtle and he played that
character to a tee. He made his character so real that I shed a tear,
feeling, for a moment, as if my own father had passed. *************************************************************************************** So
sorry to hear the sad news about Darren McGavin. He brought such great
memories to so many people. This great actor will live on in most all our
lives and generations to come. ********************************************************************************************* There
will never be another Carl Kolchak! I can watch the original episodes over
and over again.... more for Carl's (Darren's) hilarious antics mixed in with
convincing fear. Hopefully, he and Tony V. will have a lot of arguing to
do in Heaven! May he rest in peace! ******************************************************************************************** I
am so sorry for your loss. He will be missed. Every year I will
think of him as "A Christmas Story" is the best Christmas movie ever. ________________________________________________________________________________________________ As
any Darren McGavin fan can tell you, McGavin was one hell of an actor. His
roles were numerous and everyone has their favorite McGavin character. I
must admit I thoroughly enjoyed him as Gallery in "The Challenge" (
made-for-TV, 1970). Rough,tough, and jungle-savvy, McGavin's character was
clear in his intent and purpose, even when there were no lines in the scene to
be spoken. That was thanks to McGavin's talent. He had the ability
to not simply allow us to experience the character but to share the character's
emotions and attitude, to be with the character as the story
unfolded. One of the best examples I can site from memory is perhaps my
favorite McGavin vehicle: "Kolchak: The Night Stalker." ******************************************************************************************** When
the "Night Stalker" series ran with Darren McGavin, I never missed an
episode. I have enjoyed him so much in every film I have ever watched with
him in it. But the "Night Stalker" was the best, since I love
scary/horror movies. I tried to watch the new "Night Stalker"
series that aired this year, but could not get on with the series, since my mind
knew only one person could be Carl Kolchak. ******************************************************************************************** Item...
Heard the sad and tragic news early this morning of the passing of perhaps
America's most prolific character actors of the last sixty years. Beloved
actor Darren McGavin has gone home to be re-united with his wife Kathie. ************************************************************************************** When
I was a kid, "Kolchak: The Night Stalker" was my favorite TV show, and
Darren McGavin was my favorite actor. I met him twice after performances
off Broadway, in "The Hank Williams Story" and
"Greetings." At our first meeting I requested a TV
interview. I received a lovely letter from his wife, Kathie Browne, who
died a couple of years ago. They said they had watched a tape of my show
and liked it and wanted to do it. I
heard of Darren's passing late Saturday and again another era has passed, never
to return. It is very touching that at least he lived long enough to see
the "Night Stalker" released in the medium it has so long deserved,
and the irony that the miserable remake of his classic role was so poorly
received. He must be up there with that Kolchak smile looking down on
us.... **************************************************************************************************** I'd
like to express my condolences on the loss of Darren McGavin. In a way it
feels like we've all lost a family member because as the Dad in "A
Christmas Story," he didn't represent the Dad we remember as kids - he WAS
the Dad we remembered as kids! I'm sure like many, my siblings and I
thought FOR SURE they patterned that role on our Dad. He was EXACTLY the
way we fondly remembered our own Dad who passed away in 1977. We all thank
Darren for bringing someone to life we all loved so much - our Dads.
Thanks, ***********************************************************************************God
bless Darren McGavin for all that he gave to us. Thanks for the Old Man at
Christmas and Kolchak at Halloween and all the other characters you invented for
us to enjoy. Rest easy! ***************************************************************************************************** What
a sad day it is when you lose someone you love! I feel like this dear man
is a relative of mine or a neighbor or a friend that drops in just before
Christmas to bring joy and laughter into our home. A movie like "A
Christmas Story" will live on for generations to come. My two little
granddaughters are as much in love with this movie as I was when it first came
out. It is our tradition to show this film beginning the day of
Thanksgiving and up to and sometimes following Christmas Day. I know
Darren deserves credit for so much more, but for our family, "A Christmas
Story" will always be our tradition and Mr. McGavin will continue to live
in our hearts and minds. He will be sadly missed by so many. ****************************************************************************************************** I
was sorry to hear about the loss of Darren McGavin. Personally, Mr.
McGavin will always hold a special and warm place in my heart for his portrayal
'f "The Old Man" in "A Christmas Story." That iconic
representation of all that is "Dad" to so many millions of men and
women out there, and especially to all those boys dreaming of Red Ryder BB guns
will always live on through the holiday season, both on TV and in our
hearts. It's amazing to me how hard it can be to lose someone you've never
even known, when you enjoyed and admired their work so much. I guess we
just internalize so much of what we see, hear and enjoy that it becomes a part
of us, so when we lost the artist who creates those things, it's like losing a
member of the family, or even a part of ourselves. Pleas eknow that I
share your pain. ******************************************************************************************************* I
want to say I really missed this year is to all the great actors I remembered
watching as I grew up. I remember seeing Mr. McGavin not from his early
works, but as a young kid seeing him in GUNSMOKE, to being the first doctor to
Steve Austin on "The Six Million Dollar Man," then to Carl
Kolchak. Which I, as so many devoted fans, were upset when they cancelled
it. It may have been a short run, but I felt it went long in
seasons. Since its release, I've watched it several times. And then,
his "A Christmas Story," which every Christmas I watch as a holiday
favorite next to other traditional classics. He was funny and entertaining
as the father who won that special lamp. Darren McGavin was witty, moving
and had a feel when you watched him perform. And that is talent.
Seeing the relationship with his wife Kathie and the love they had for the
performing arts was special and will be truly missed. He came in an era of
new frontiers of television and technologies with great script writers and open
ideas. And his talent made us feel the characters he was portraying.
As almost we were standing right next to Carl as the Swamp monster was moving in
on him. Well, I know he is in a good place with Kathie, and at least he
has company going with him through the gates: Dennis Weaver and Don Knotts.
They will be missed, as well! ****************************************************************************************************** Thank
the Lord for Mr. McGavin, for his life and his work. He has enriched the
world greatly with his talents and portrayals. When our family watches
"A Christmas Story," especially over and over again at Christmas, I
always like to point out Mr. McGavin's facial expressions in amazement. I
don't think there is another actor that could convey a mood or a thought with
more visible expression than Mr. McGavin. ************************************************************************************************ My
dad, also 83 years recently passed and so I was especially saddened to hear of
the passing of Darren McGavin. How fortunate you were to have had him for
so many years. You knew the real man, we only the actor. I should
think that he was a lot like the characters he played with a wry sense of humor
and also a kind man. He will certainly live on in the hearts and minds of
his many fans. ****************************************************************************************** I
am heartbroken over the loss of Mr. McGavin. While I am old enough to
admit that I watched "The Night Stalker" series on its original run, I
have spent the last 20 Christmas eves with the "Old Man" and hope to
spend my remaining Christmas eves with him, also. I enjoyed Mr. McGavin's
acting on "Murphy Brown" and on many of his movie and television roles
but Mr. McGavin was my "old man" and I will sincerely miss him. ******************************************************************************************************* I
was so sad to hear about the passing of Darren McGavin. "A Christmas
Story" is one of my favorite holiday movies. Darren will be sadly
missed. I will watch that movie tonight just to be reminded of how he
brought so many smiles to kids at Christmas. ************************************************************************************ You
asked for tributes to Darren McGavin. I think he saved my life. ************************************************************************************* Thanks
so much for the laughs you brought to me and my family. Rest in peace,
rise on glory. ********************************************************************************************** Hello!
I plan to watch "A Christmas Story" yet again in honor of a great
actor and human being. My husband and I were such fans of all his
work. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He will be
missed. Take care, ************************************************************************************** Our
sincerest condolences to those who loved Darren McGavin and the fictional family
in "A Christmas Story." I've been watching Mr. McGavin ever
since WTBS started playing 24-hours of "A Christmas Story." My
parents watched "The Night Stalker" religiously. I loved
Darren's famous line, "that son of a bitch would freeze up in the middle of
a summer on the equator." God, I love that. He really will be
missed and will be remembered for his great acting. What a GREAT actor and
HUMAN BEING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ******************************************************************************************* We
wept after hearing of Darren's passing. To us, he was the cantankerous old
man in "A Christmas Story" or that zany pesky reporter Cark Kolchak
sporting a ruffled seersucker suit. Darren provided us with laughs and
chills as he battled the bizarre, outsmarted authorities to his misfortune,
teased Ron Updyke, bonded with Miss Emily or gave Tony Vincenzo more Acid Reflux
Disease in "Kolchak: the Night Stalker." We later realized how
diversified of a talent he truly was by watching him in many roles. God
bless you, Mr. and Mrs. McGavin. **************************************************************************************************** Darren
is with God, now, and so must be with his beloved Kathie. I will remember
him.... Darren's loss is the nation's loss. In film, or television
there is no one like him. He brought to his profession what I feel he must
have brought to his life... Dignity. In the truest sense of the word, he
is now and shall ever be a Star.
Although
I never had the pleasure of meeting Mr. and Mrs. McGavin, I've had, since
January 13, 1972, the deep down feeling that I've always known him. Most
younger people will probably remember him fondly as "The Old Man" from
the 1983 movie "A Christmas Story." To me, though, he'll always
be Carl Kolchak. The sheer zest, energy and yeasty good humor of that
dogged INS reporter must have been at least 90% of the real Darren
McGavin. After the "Night Stalker" series prematurely ended in
1975, I still made it a habit to go out of my way to watch anything in which he
subsequently appeared - "Law and Order" - "Inherit the Wind"
- even a villainous turn in "Captain America" brought forth a bit of
the old McGavin impishness with that droll twinkle in his eye masquerading as
mere cynicism. When he turned 80 in 2002, it occurred to me that he
probably wouldn't be around much longer. That's when I started writing a
little birthday greeting to him via e-mail over the next three years. Like
so many, many other fans and personal friends, I'll always remember him - and
his beautiful wife, Kathie. ********************************************************************************************************** I'm
greatly saddened by Darren's death. I worked closely with him and Kathie
for one week of my life. It was a great, great week. He optioned one
of my plays for Broadway. It never got staged but I was honored he thought
it was good enough to produce. ************************************************************************************************ Please
know that Darren McGavin was my favorite actor. I greatly admired and
marveled at his various character portrayals. He was someone who grabbed my
attention as a youngster and I enjoyed him being teamed with Simon Oakland in
the original "Night Stalker" series. As naive as this may sound,
so many of us often dream of meeting famous individuals and celebrities; and
such was the case with myself as I often thought of how it would be to know such
an actor as Mr. McGavin. ********************************************************************************* As
a fan of the "Night Stalker" growing up in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, it
was a thrill to think that Carl Kolchak was nosing around my city looking for
"Jack the Ripper," in one one the series' episodes. Of course at
the age of twelve, we never knew what "Exterior shots" were, or that
Darren/Carl Kolchak was not really here in person. The "Voom Voom
Room" mentioned in that episode was actually a real Go-Go Joint in the 70's
where our Federal Building now stands! This was the story I had to sadly
relate this past weekend with the passing of Darren McGavin. ********************************************************************************** Please
allow me to express my sincere condolences. Hollywood has lost a truly
class act... one, the likes may not come again in a long time. I think all
of us know the end will come for all of us sooner or later, however, this may be
of little solace to his fans. I have mentioned in past notes to Darren's
web site that I consider myself to be a 'Cool' character but the mold was
certainly broken with Mr. McGavin. We are so fortunate to have the
archives of television to continue to know Darren and his body of work. I
know in my heart that right at this minute he and Kathie are strolling along,
her in perhaps a flowing summer dress and Darren with an "Aw Schucks"
expression on his face.... and a certain straw hat cocked back on his head,
saying, "Well, life was pretty good... do you think Tony (Simon Oakland)
will give me some time off?" I just wanted to express
my sincere condolences on the recent passing of Darren McGavin. ******************************************************************************************************* I
got to see Mr. McGavin in "The Music Man" in summer stock in Buffalo,
NY. After the show, he signed my program and was very nice to me and my
friends. I have always been a fan of his talent and I'm old enough to
remember "Mike Hammer" and "Riverboat" on TV.
Hopefully, TVLAND will give the great gift of his programs to future
generations. ************************************************************************************ It
is with sincere sympathy that I am sending this message. I was saddened to
hear of the death of Mr. McGavin this past weekend. "A Christmas
Story" has been a long time favorite of mine since the time it made its
debut in the movie theatres in 1983-4. Mr. McGavin performed the part of
the unyielding/stern father with great finesse. **************************************************************************************************** I
remember my earliest exposure to Darren McGavin was his auspicious role as
"the Old Man" in "A Christmas Story." Afterwards, one
late summer night during my school recess, I was introduced to "The Night
Stalker." It was no surprise that I later learned that the ABC
presentation of "The Night Stalker" won the highest ratings up to that
time for a television movie. This was a testament to the quality
production and above-board acting that Darren was committed to. I do not
believe there was ever a production that I did not enjoy, that Darren McGavin
was a part of.
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